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		<title>By: Randy</title>
		<link>http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/philg/2003/08/25/why-arent-there-more-single-fathers/comment-page-1/#comment-23625</link>
		<dc:creator>Randy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jun 2007 13:42:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do any of you have kids?  I am a single father of 9 year old, daughter - have has the &quot;single&quot; part of this title since she was 1.  Mom&#039;s the flake, and thats how I wound up in this position.  Na&#039; it&#039;s not &quot;human nature, baby&quot;.  My daughter is the most important person in my life, and I am grateful to have this opportunity, with or without her mother in the picture.  Yes, there are dads out there who do actually love their kids, and while yes - sex is a biggie to us men, I believe for those who actually care and take the responsibility of parenting seriously, we can also manage to keep it in our pants as appropriate so as to to subject our little ones to all the crap that goes along our worldly desires.  As a few have commented previously, &quot;Children are not pets and they are not hobbies. Raise them yourself, or don’t have ‘em.&quot;

- Well put!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do any of you have kids?  I am a single father of 9 year old, daughter &#8211; have has the &#8220;single&#8221; part of this title since she was 1.  Mom&#8217;s the flake, and thats how I wound up in this position.  Na&#8217; it&#8217;s not &#8220;human nature, baby&#8221;.  My daughter is the most important person in my life, and I am grateful to have this opportunity, with or without her mother in the picture.  Yes, there are dads out there who do actually love their kids, and while yes &#8211; sex is a biggie to us men, I believe for those who actually care and take the responsibility of parenting seriously, we can also manage to keep it in our pants as appropriate so as to to subject our little ones to all the crap that goes along our worldly desires.  As a few have commented previously, &#8220;Children are not pets and they are not hobbies. Raise them yourself, or don’t have ‘em.&#8221;</p>
<p>- Well put!</p>
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		<title>By: Flyaway Indoor Sky Diving</title>
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		<dc:creator>Flyaway Indoor Sky Diving</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2005 09:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
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Sky Diving School</description>
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		<title>By: webwench</title>
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		<dc:creator>webwench</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2003 15:25:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;

Hmm, &#039;Why aren&#039;t there more single fathers?&#039; There are a few answers to this, most notably that (1) most mothers wouldn&#039;t sell their children at any price, and (2) apparently many fathers are not only happy to give their children away (or at least sow the seeds with total disregard), but will pay someone else (usually the mother) to take care of their children, as long as he doesn&#039;t have to do it himself.

In other words, it&#039;s human nature, baby. Of course, there&#039;s always adoption, although if a representative of an adoption agency reads your little screed and decides you see children as commodities to be bought and sold, adoption may not be an option &lt;i&gt;for you&lt;/i&gt;.</description>
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<p>Hmm, &#8216;Why aren&#8217;t there more single fathers?&#8217; There are a few answers to this, most notably that (1) most mothers wouldn&#8217;t sell their children at any price, and (2) apparently many fathers are not only happy to give their children away (or at least sow the seeds with total disregard), but will pay someone else (usually the mother) to take care of their children, as long as he doesn&#8217;t have to do it himself.</p>
<p>In other words, it&#8217;s human nature, baby. Of course, there&#8217;s always adoption, although if a representative of an adoption agency reads your little screed and decides you see children as commodities to be bought and sold, adoption may not be an option <i>for you</i>.</p>
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		<title>By: JC</title>
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		<dc:creator>JC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2003 02:31:02 +0000</pubDate>
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Excerpts:

&quot;Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at an Elingsh uinervtisy, it 
deosn&#039;t mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod 
are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht frist and lsat 
ltteer is at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl 
mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs 
is bcuseae we do not raed ervey lteter by it slef but the 
wrod as a wlohe.&quot;

Now, most of you fall into that sphere of mind and it&#039;s evident in your responses to Philip&#039;s ideas.
Whereas Philip is all about quality and he gave his all to us. How many of us can claim to give as much and in quality too - not withstanding good or bad ideas?

How many of us can consider to have done as much research into an idea as Philip does before we strike back to question Philip&#039;s credentials?

It calls for each of us to look into our own selves and looking up to Philip for his courage to speak up on society&#039;s ills and probably none of us is smart enough to distinguish whether it&#039;s Philip&#039;s personal evil or society&#039;s at large.

Probably none of us have the breath or scale as Philip&#039;s amusing mind.

On a personal note, I&#039;m glad to have known the existence of this man who has proven to us how redeeming man can be and probably most of the people alive on this earth who are looking for answers to life&#039;s preplexing questions do have references to all ancient sages and scriptures but life is still as troubling and numbing to them.

Look no further, here&#039;s one man who takes on life head on to the limit with all (almost) virtues intact, well, until he burns up.

Go on Phil, give us the ride of your life so that we can keep on laughing but more so, learn from you (not available anywhere else).</description>
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<p>&#8220;Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at an Elingsh uinervtisy, it<br />
deosn&#8217;t mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod<br />
are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht frist and lsat<br />
ltteer is at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl<br />
mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs<br />
is bcuseae we do not raed ervey lteter by it slef but the<br />
wrod as a wlohe.&#8221;</p>
<p>Now, most of you fall into that sphere of mind and it&#8217;s evident in your responses to Philip&#8217;s ideas.<br />
Whereas Philip is all about quality and he gave his all to us. How many of us can claim to give as much and in quality too &#8211; not withstanding good or bad ideas?</p>
<p>How many of us can consider to have done as much research into an idea as Philip does before we strike back to question Philip&#8217;s credentials?</p>
<p>It calls for each of us to look into our own selves and looking up to Philip for his courage to speak up on society&#8217;s ills and probably none of us is smart enough to distinguish whether it&#8217;s Philip&#8217;s personal evil or society&#8217;s at large.</p>
<p>Probably none of us have the breath or scale as Philip&#8217;s amusing mind.</p>
<p>On a personal note, I&#8217;m glad to have known the existence of this man who has proven to us how redeeming man can be and probably most of the people alive on this earth who are looking for answers to life&#8217;s preplexing questions do have references to all ancient sages and scriptures but life is still as troubling and numbing to them.</p>
<p>Look no further, here&#8217;s one man who takes on life head on to the limit with all (almost) virtues intact, well, until he burns up.</p>
<p>Go on Phil, give us the ride of your life so that we can keep on laughing but more so, learn from you (not available anywhere else).</p>
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		<title>By: PatW</title>
		<link>http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/philg/2003/08/25/why-arent-there-more-single-fathers/comment-page-1/#comment-5536</link>
		<dc:creator>PatW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2003 16:19:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;

Rob, you may be correct about Phil&#039;s credentials, but he turned his ideas into millions in hard cash. I wish I can say the same about myself. It&#039;s one thing to have great (or even mediocre) ideas. It&#039;s quite another to turn them into real money. That&#039;s why most of us are still dumbly slaving away for our CEOs while they zoom around to PGA tournaments and Carribean retreats in company jets. 

There will always be another craze over some other new-fangled invention. Just be sure that you recognize it sufficiently in advance that you&#039;ll able to profit from others&#039; lunacy. Don&#039;t believe me? Check out Devil Takes the Hindmost: A History of Financial Speculation. There have been many crazes, and they are remarkably similar in progression, even if the object of obssession is different.

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0452281806/qid=1062429331/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/103-2333760-4739033?v=glance&amp;s=books</description>
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<p>Rob, you may be correct about Phil&#8217;s credentials, but he turned his ideas into millions in hard cash. I wish I can say the same about myself. It&#8217;s one thing to have great (or even mediocre) ideas. It&#8217;s quite another to turn them into real money. That&#8217;s why most of us are still dumbly slaving away for our CEOs while they zoom around to PGA tournaments and Carribean retreats in company jets. </p>
<p>There will always be another craze over some other new-fangled invention. Just be sure that you recognize it sufficiently in advance that you&#8217;ll able to profit from others&#8217; lunacy. Don&#8217;t believe me? Check out Devil Takes the Hindmost: A History of Financial Speculation. There have been many crazes, and they are remarkably similar in progression, even if the object of obssession is different.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0452281806/qid=1062429331/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/103-2333760-4739033?v=glance&amp;s=books" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0452281806/qid=1062429331/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/103-2333760-4739033?v=glance&amp;s=books</a></p>
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		<title>By: Eddie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eddie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2003 06:39:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;

Great idea. I&#039;m glad someone&#039;s got the balls to voice these ideas. As the great light of civilization, the U.S. tends to have some archaic ideas about love, marriage, and child-rearing.</description>
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<p>Great idea. I&#8217;m glad someone&#8217;s got the balls to voice these ideas. As the great light of civilization, the U.S. tends to have some archaic ideas about love, marriage, and child-rearing.</p>
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		<title>By: Rob</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2003 04:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;

Ramakrishnan, he&#039;s not a prof or even a lecturer. He barely got his PhD in &#039;99 during the height of the internet craze on a faddish thesis about creating online communities. Post-dotcom-crash he&#039;d be lucky to pass that off as a senior year project at MIT.</description>
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<p>Ramakrishnan, he&#8217;s not a prof or even a lecturer. He barely got his PhD in &#8216;99 during the height of the internet craze on a faddish thesis about creating online communities. Post-dotcom-crash he&#8217;d be lucky to pass that off as a senior year project at MIT.</p>
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		<title>By: LuhrenLoup</title>
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		<dc:creator>LuhrenLoup</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2003 00:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;

At some point you have to let it all go and realize the bigoted nature of the human species.  Every group has had its time under the gun.  Are the Jews filthy usurers?  Are the Arabs crazed fanatic killers?  In New York we have a preponderance of Jews and a lot of Arabs.  They don&#039;t  seem to be very different from each other or the rest of us, trying to make a living, raise a family, have a good time.  As a pagan, I am fascinated by their holy days, their calls to prayer, their rites and beliefs, etc.
There are many stories for and against each group.  Ultimately, if one group or another gains control or power, we will have to respect  their ways as we now respect the ways of those in power in spite of the fact that they are probably not ours.
It is not a person&#039;s affiliation that concerns me as much as their complaints, the injustices they have suffered, and how they plan to rectify  them.  I don&#039;t like having bombs thrown at me, just like the Iraqis aren&#039;t too happy about their situation.  We have now entered the age of terrorism, little guys have found a way to get at the big guy burrowing in like a splinter under the nail.  
Lot of little guys and only one big guy.  I don&#039;t think the Arabs are the last oppressed group we&#039;ve heard from.</description>
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<p>At some point you have to let it all go and realize the bigoted nature of the human species.  Every group has had its time under the gun.  Are the Jews filthy usurers?  Are the Arabs crazed fanatic killers?  In New York we have a preponderance of Jews and a lot of Arabs.  They don&#8217;t  seem to be very different from each other or the rest of us, trying to make a living, raise a family, have a good time.  As a pagan, I am fascinated by their holy days, their calls to prayer, their rites and beliefs, etc.<br />
There are many stories for and against each group.  Ultimately, if one group or another gains control or power, we will have to respect  their ways as we now respect the ways of those in power in spite of the fact that they are probably not ours.<br />
It is not a person&#8217;s affiliation that concerns me as much as their complaints, the injustices they have suffered, and how they plan to rectify  them.  I don&#8217;t like having bombs thrown at me, just like the Iraqis aren&#8217;t too happy about their situation.  We have now entered the age of terrorism, little guys have found a way to get at the big guy burrowing in like a splinter under the nail.<br />
Lot of little guys and only one big guy.  I don&#8217;t think the Arabs are the last oppressed group we&#8217;ve heard from.</p>
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		<title>By: Jim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2003 23:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;

I don&#x2019;t generally generalize, but women desire children and men desire sex. Men will not be single fathers, for they do not desire children, just as women do not desire sex, generally speaking.</description>
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<p>I don&#x2019;t generally generalize, but women desire children and men desire sex. Men will not be single fathers, for they do not desire children, just as women do not desire sex, generally speaking.</p>
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		<title>By: college girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>college girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2003 23:58:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;

i&#039;m looking for some tuition help this semester.  i&#039;d happily &#039;handle&#039; a pregnancy for you philip.  waddya say?</description>
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<p>i&#8217;m looking for some tuition help this semester.  i&#8217;d happily &#8216;handle&#8217; a pregnancy for you philip.  waddya say?</p>
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